Celia Lashlie led the “Good Man” project in New Zealand which involved her working with teenage boys in 25 different schools. Below are links to her book and a TV interview with her.
Lashlie, Celia (2005). He’ll be OK: growing gorgeous boys into good men. http://www.harpercollins.com.au/9780730400424/
TV interview with Celia Lashlie (25 minutes): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S45Dj_HTFho