This morning at our division meeting I took the opportunity to speak to the boys about what we all experienced at Kings on Saturday afternoon. There is no doubt that in the more recent years, Saturday would rate as one of the most memorable. Many experienced staff who were there compared the afternoon to occasions up to 30 years ago.
As I mentioned to the boys, it is easy for people to confuse what they saw on Saturday and what was important about it. To new-comers and certainly to outsiders, the events of Saturday afternoon could be mistaken for being about rugby. This, however, is not the case. Ok … I’m not totally whacky – I realise that it was a rugby match where we were, but what we saw on Saturday with the boys was not really about rugby at all – rugby was simply the vehicle on this occasion.
What we saw was Joeys Spirit. This is a phrase that I hardly ever use as I would hate for it to be a throw away line which loses significance. In this case though … there is simply no other way to describe it.
We saw boys who cheered together not because they were watching a rugby match but because they were watching fellow Joeys boys who they knew and could relate to. When the final whistle blew, what we saw was a genuine passion. It wasn’t a celebration that was rehearsed and it wasn’t put on – it was a real happiness that came as a result of being together as a school and rallying behind each other.
I explained to the boys that if, for one minute, moments like these become about one particular sport or other event then we are wasting our time. The Joeys culture is about supporting each other as a school and it is certainly not limited to sport. We all need to keep re-inforcing this with the boys – they must display this genuine support for others in everything that we do, whether it be in class, in relationships or in our sport.
The quote for this week (which is on the right of this page) I feel is a wonderful statement which in many ways relates to us here at Joeys. Many people outside of Joeys don’t understand why we insist that the boys attend certain events and one of the reasons that they don’t understand this is because they haven’t experienced what it can bring. They don’t understand … they simply don’t hear the music. Whether it be attending Family Masses once a term, the Academic Prize Giving or various sporting fixtures, these events bring the College together as one and supporting as one. This week we will see this support in the form of all boys attending the First XI Football and in only a few weeks time we again come together at the Family Mass.
Having a sense of belonging is one of the most important things that boys need as they grow up. We believe that having a real sense of belonging at school is crucial and that events such as last Saturday, such as Family Masses, do foster that sense of belonging during the boys’ time here.
I have no doubt that the boys will be able to experience many more wonderful times together over the coming five years – it is these moments that provide wonderful memories and build the real spirit of togetherness that exists here at Joeys. In what arena it happens in will change – that is not important. What is crucial is that it keeps happening and that we are all there together to experience it and enjoy it!
Pictured in Photo 1: Jojo Yeboah (Mosman), Eddie Yee (Paddington) and Tom Callaughan (Yass)
Pictured in Photo 2: Kobe Pitt (Moree), Dylan Grant (Dubai), Charlie Smith (Bellata), Jojo Yeboah (Mosman) and Travis Blair (Macksville)
Pictured in Photo 3: Jack Biddle (Armidale), John Chow (Papua New Guinea), Jack Renshaw (Northbridge), Ibbi Warfield (Lane Cove), Nick McDonald (Burwood), Andrew Bland (Kingsford), Joey Masur (Collaroy), Sam de Courcy (Greenwich), Johnno Hookey (Alexandria), Dylan Russell (Glebe) and Irving Qin (Putney).