QUOTE: “SUCCESS IS DEPENDENT UPON THE GLANDS; SWEAT GLANDS!”
Dear Parents/Carers;
The week has been one with some good life messages and experiences for the boys as they head into their exams which commence next Tuesday. On Wednesday Yr. 11 attended the funeral for Joe Fazio (’61). Now the boys had heard of Joe’s
story earlier this year when he was asked to give the 1st V111 their rowing skins before the Head of the River. As Joe was ill, with dementia, his wife, Di, who is on the College staff fulfilled this role on his behalf. Just to fill you in, Joe came to SJC from Taree in 1955; his father had died when he was 9. In 1959, when in Year 10, whilst on cadet camp in Singleton Joe and close mate, Michael Farrell came across a live ammunition shell which exploded, killing Michael and critically injuring Joe. Despite this harrowing tragedy, Joe, showing tremendous resilience, finished his time at SJC strongly and along the way was in the 1st V111 and 1st XV in 1960 and 1961. After following his passion for rowing, Joe was selected in the 1968 Olympic Games in the men’s V111, which won a silver medal. Tragedy again revisited when a spinal injury, requiring extensive surgery cut short his rowing career. Despite this Joe lived out his life forging a successful business career with the Hilton Group and returning to coach our boys rowing in 1995. 13 years ago, Joe was diagnosed with dementia and the illness gradually ate away at him, making him dependant and a shell of his former self. Di explained to the boys that these setbacks had taught Joe resilience, perseverance and the need to follow his dreams and goals rather than wallow in self-pity and sadness. Di works with our boys in the Support Education Centre and she supervises Yr. 11 Office/dorms on Monday and Wednesday afternoons. We were sadly informed last Tuesday that Joe had died on Monday night. Whilst looking for someone to fulfil Di’s role in the dorms on Wednesday afternoon, I was quite amazed to find Di at the College and to see her coming down to our dorms after school had finished and, in her words, she simply said she could not think of anywhere else she would rather be at this time than around the boys. I told the boys this and said the way they could best support Di, was by the way they presented themselves and participated in the Memorial Service. They did not disappoint. What they also saw, was what a wonderful woman in Di Fazio they have working with them. Despite the crippling illness which was slowly eating her husband away, she would always turn up here and go about her duties cheerfully and with a great sense of service and dedication. Life lessons I am sure did not go unnoticed by the boys.
A quick twenty minute break to have a can of coke and muffin and the troops were called upon to welcome a group of
students from St Edmund’s School, Wahroonga which is a Year 7-12 co-educational special high school for teenagers with a wide range of disabilities including sensory impairment, intellectual disability and autism. Over the past four years, they have been coming to perform for our Year 11 students and then join them for lunch. The “Eddies Entertainers” were a most excitable group and danced two numbers, the Time Warp and Eye of the Tiger. Our boys were a wonderful audience showing great appreciation and acclaim for our visitors’ efforts. James Christie, Ross Davey and Nick Henry then played a piece of music which their guests thoroughly enjoyed and then Laurence Nelmes, Chris Spooner, Lewis Mullins and Andrew O’Neill played two pieces, the second a truly memorable version of “Stand by Me” with special back-up vocals by Brendon Follington, Andrew O’Neill and Ben Chaplin, which brought the house down! Our guests then joined us for lunch in our refectory.
The boys were great in their care of our special guests right down to cutting up their meal for some of them. It was a wonderful experience with our boys’ hospitality to these special children and three Staff from St Edmund’s, lead by Margriet Shaw-Taylor, capping off a thoroughly enjoyable experience.
At yesterday’s Headmaster’s Assembly, Ross Tarlinton acknowledged the extraordinary efforts of plenty of our boys, which was exemplified in the recent Students Visual Arts Exhibition. Such efforts were examples of good choices made by boys. He then brought to their attention some examples of not so good choices which some make, abuse of drugs and alcohol, misuse of Facebook, turning it into “Facelessbook” and saying gutless things to bring down others and their character. Ross also highlighted the behaviour of some of our old boys on a five year reunion at the
recent Newington rugby match and how they displayed behaviour totally against our principles when the Newington kicker was lining up a conversion and how this behaviour drew a favourable response from some of our boys in the crowd. He asked them not to be sucked into wrong choices and to think about what they stand for especially in relation to Facebook, Drug/alcohol use or abuse and making others feel safe.
Whilst on the Students Visual arts Exhibition Michelle Markuse, Acting Visual Arts Coordinator gives the following account –
“Last week was the opening of our annual student art exhibition. Each Year 11 student had their artwork on display. I’d like to take this opportunity to acknowledge all Year 11 students who
participated in this occasion. At the opening, I was struck by the sense of pride from the students and their parents. The exhibition was opened by our 2011 Artist in Residence Craig Waddell who commented on the high quality of the Year 11 artwork. It is a great honour for one of our year 11 artists each year to have their artwork selected for the Year 11 Art Prize. This year the honour went to Jesse Fenech and Harrison Gould. Congratulations to Jesse and Harrison on their hard efforts”.

Michelle Markuse
At our previous Assembly, two of our boys Matthew Hall and Max Hall presented to the College a wonderful initiative of recycling the food which is not consumed in our Dining Halls so that it does not go to waste. This project was initiated by Matt and Max and they are to be commended on their energy and thoughts and proactive behaviour in helping others less fortunate. Following is an account of Matthew’s address to the College:
Today I have been asked to introduce an initiative to you that we as a school have decided to undertake. Over the past few months Max Hall and I have investigated the possibility of minimizing the wastage that Joeys as a school produces and putting it to good use in the community. As everyone is well aware, after each meal there is often a lot of wasted food. Especially at dinner times, the wastage can be monumental with dozens of leftover trays of perfectly good hot food left from all of the 6 year groups. This food could be utilised in many different ways, but is instead often disposed of, serving little purpose. With this obvious problem in mind we were introduced to an initiative that
could possibly provide a solution, called OzHarvest. Basically OzHarvest is a not for profit charity that collects leftover food from authorised caters such as Alliance who are responsible for the food at Joeys. This leftover food is then taken and distributed to those in need at centres such as Matt Talbot, youth off the streets and many other charities and centres across Sydney and the surrounding areas. By distributing our leftover food through this channel we can always assure that our food never goes to waste and is always put to good use. Here at Joeys, every morning where left over hot food is available from either the day before or those mornings OzHarvest will pick up the left over’s and distribute it out. It is something simple, thoughtful and an innovative that our school community can participate in order to benefit the wider community.
A few people need to be thanked for their help and dedication, without which I am sure the project would never have become a reality. Also to Br Anthony Boyd and the college leadership team whose support has been invaluable to us in the implementation of this initiative, providing the framework for the project to quickly become a reality. Thank you must also be given to Mr Daniel Curran who introduced me to the idea last year.
We will now watch a short video on OzHarvest’s work.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smH7jPPOrrE&feature=related
Whilst on boys achievements I would like to congratulate Tim Palmer who won the NSW AWD Cross Country Championships and came 2nd in the National Championships which were subsequently held in Canberra. A terrific effort by Tim who also played in the successful 2nd X1 Football whilst achieving this.
TWO ISSUES TO CONSIDER
I would like to bring a couple of issues to your attention and if we both deal with these issues together it will be for the benefit of our boys.
1. DORM SENIORS / MARIST CHILDREN’S CAMP:
At the moment, some of our boys have applied for positions as Dorm Senior or the Marist Children’s Camp. There are 14 dorm Seniors who will be chosen and 35 Carers for the Camp. At the moment the number of boys who have applied far exceeds the number who will be chosen. I spoke to the boys last night about going for things, a part of life we all want them to do. I also said that when they do this, they need to be prepared to be acknowledged or chosen for the job, and
they need to be prepared to miss out. If they are successful, be thankful, humble and take it in your stride, and carry out the role to the best of your ability, which you offered to do. It does not mean you are better than others around you or you are more important than others. Conversely, if you miss out, don’t take it personally, don’t withdraw into a shell, think you are not as good/important as others and begin to stop trying for positions. As we all know, knock backs are part of life, simply reload and refire. If we can do this from both ends, it will certainly assist the boys.
2. FRIDAY NIGHT OVERNIGHTS:
With the culmination of the winter sport season a steep rise in the requests for Friday overnights has arrived. I would like to simply say, the strengths of the boarding model at St Joseph’s is that the boys have 5 nights of supervised study and at this time in their education they need these nights. I would be confident in saying not much work would happen on Saturdays, and, Sunday nights we have the boys do at the most, one hour of study after Sunday night Mass. To go from Thursday nights to basically Monday’s I think a boy would be in danger of falling behind academically and to give your son the best chance, I would like to ask that Friday nights be seen as another important night of study and any requests be kept to important family occasions such as birthdays etc. Requests to go out to see a mate play in a band, or to attend an ex-girlfriends birthday I will find quite difficult to support for the above mentioned reasons. Our boys do not always see this, but they need our guidance and I trust in your support and understanding in this matter.
Finally, to all the Dads, Happy Father’s Day for Sunday and have a great day (and weekend) with your sons and families. I will leave you with a quote I like regarding fathers:
“Small boys become big men through the influence of big men who care about small boys”.
Regards
Jeremy